“Tou Mou’s themes are cleansing, luck, charity, Karma and history. Her symbols are pens (or quills), books and light. The Chinese/Thai Goddess of record keeping takes special notice of our actions (or inactions) today, keeping careful notes for the Karmic bank account. In works of art, Tou Mou is depicted sitting behind books and glowing with the beautiful light of the aurora. It is this brightness that shines on our lives today, revealing both the good and the bad. Suitable offerings for this Goddess include rice, fruit, and all acts of goodness.
In Thailand, Songkran begins with tossing water down the street to chase away evil influences. I suggest using your driveway instead, or a glass of water on the kitchen floor that is judiciously mopped up later.
People in Thailand traditionally wash their parents’ hands with scented water today to bring them honor and long life. So, remember your elders today, and do something nice for them – it’s good Karma, and it definitely catches Tou Mou’s attention. Another activity extends good deeds to the natural world – that of freeing songbirds, who then bear their liberator’s prayers directly to Tou Mou’s ear. You might want to simply scatter some birdseed for similar results.
Finally, it might be a good day to balance your check book to make sure your financial Karma stays in good standing. Burn a green candle nearby for prosperity.”
(Patricia Telesco, “365 Goddess: a daily guide to the magic and inspiration of the goddess”.)
Tou Mu, the Chinese mother and sky Goddess, is an important deity in the Taoist hierarchy. She is the Chinese Goddess of the North Star, and keeper of the book of life and death, controlling the days of humans and supervises a register in which the life and death of each person on earth is recorded. She is said to have the ability to save people who call on Her from many evils and troubles. She is a Goddess who controls not only the natural process of heaven and earth, but also helps to maintain the Universe in equilibrium.
Having attained all of the celestial mysteries, Tou Mu alone is able to cross between the moon and the sun. She is the mother of the Nine Celestial Kings. She is portrayed sitting on a lotus blossom, and She has four heads (each facing one of the four cardinal directions) and eight arms. In Her hands She holds such things as 2 Circles which represent the Sun and the Moon (which cannot be omitted or replaced); a bell which represents the power to summon/control all the elements; a seal which represents authority; bow and arrow, curved spear, sword, etc. which is to eliminate negative entities/force; a flag, and/or a flower. Tou Mu’s name means “Mother of the Great Wagon”, and is also seen as Tou Mou, Dou Mu, and Dou Mou. Her official title is Sheng De Zi Guang Tian Hou Da Sheng Yuan Ming Dou Mu Yuan Jun.   
On his site, Vabien explains Her coming into being “in simple terms, She was an energy that was created after the manifestation of San Qing (The Pure Ones) and way before the formation of the Universe. Only after the collision of energies of Dou Mu (extreme negative) and Dou Fu (extreme positive), the universe was formed and this is when the star lords are being manifested from the collision. This is why, She is the mother of all star lords.
Many people even me, at the beginning mistaken Her as Guan Yin or Chun Ti as the features are very similar such as sitting on a lotus, two hands grasp the Sun and the Moon and even the weapons held are also the same or similar to that. So how do we know if we are honoring Dou Mu or deities of other religion.
- Dou Mu have four faces. (Note: No more than 4 faces)
- 8 Arms holding onto different object. (Note: Usually 18 arms would be Chun Ti)
- Hand symbol aka mudra. (The hand symbol is put in front of Her chest but this feature is quite hard to see as a slight difference in the hand symbol mean it will be another deity and sometimes it is can’t been seen clearly.)
- Usually She would be depicted holding a bell and a seal but this varies, as She holds a range of different items.” 
MXTODIS123. An Inner Journey: The Moon, Mythology, and You, “Doumu“.
Sabrina. Goddess A Day, “Tou Mu“.
Vabien. Vabien’s Deities Site, “The Mother of Taoism – Dou Mu Yuan Jun“.
Werner, E.T.C. Myths & Legends of China, “Goddeses of the North Star“.
Her Cyclopedia, “The Goddess Tou-Mu, Mother-of-the-Pole-Star“.
Taoist Resources, “Constellation Mother“.
Taoistsecret.com, “Goddess of the Northern Star“.